"Becoming a man" in a narrative context rarely refers to physical age. Instead, it signifies a shift from childhood ego-centrism to adult responsibility, accountability, and emotional maturity.
"You gonna take the job at Miller's?" Jonah asked, chewing the stem of his blade of grass in a way that made him look older and more tired than either of them had any right to be.
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